What is it about the word “cake” that just makes people happy? Is it because it is associated with all special occasions? Maybe, it is because many of us remember our mothers making a cake, and waiting in wonderful anticipation for her to hand us the beaters to lick. When I was a little girl, cake was a serious treat. Because we didn’t have much money, fun non-essential food was an extravagant pleasure. So, even now as an adult I say, “let me eat cake”.

Recently, my daughter-in-law’s friend ask me to help her with the flowers for her wedding. She also wanted to know if I could add flowers to her wedding cake. Her wedding cake was made by her future mother-in-law, and the cake was being brought from Virginia in a large cooler, no pressure whatsoever.

But, I wanted to share this wedding cake with you because it really was easy and fun to do! Well, it was easy after I got over the anxiety of placing the first flower in the cake! You may not need to decorate a wedding cake, but you could add flowers to any cake for any occasion. They are not to be eaten of course, they are just for decoration. But, it really is amazing what a transformation adding real flowers can have on a cake!

How to decorate a cake with flowers from Jenniferdecorates.com

When deciding on what flowers to buy for your cake, buy flowers in small, medium, and large sizes. When you begin to decorate your cake you want to start with your largest flowers first. The wedding cake I decorated had three tiers, and I wanted the flowers to cascade down the cake. You trim the flowers with about an 1 1/2″ of stem left to push into the cake.

All of the large purple flowers were placed first, starting at the top of the cake and moving down to the bottom.

The next step was to add the middle size flowers. Their color was a lighter purple, and they really highlighted the darker purple flowers. The last step, and my favorite, was adding the smaller flowers. I call these the “filler”s. They fill in the gaps between the flowers and create a soft and airy look.

Adding flowers to a cake from Jenniferdecorates.com

Decorating a cake with flowers really isn’t very hard at all. Whether you are making a birthday cake for a special friend, or having guests over for dinner. Have fun with it! You will really impress everyone!

The sweet bride loved her cake, and her mother-in-law was happy too!

And, if you need me to come over and test your cake, I’m in!

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Tips to help you throw a fabulous party!

Are you looking for easy elegant party ideas? Entertaining friends and family is one of my greatest joys. Good food, laughter, and pleasant conversations over coffee, is the true meaning of living simply. This is what life is about, isn’t it?

I am a southern girl at heart! While I love an elegant party, I want my guests to feel relaxed and happy. Do you get stressed out and anxious before you entertain? And then do you end up not having fun at your own dinner party? Well, this page is all about helping you have a successful and relaxing party!

My Two Most Important Pieces of Advice When Entertaining

I would like to offer some advice on entertaining. I love talking elegant party ideas, and I can get totally wrapped up in all the ideas, but before we get into all that, I would like to talk about a valuable lesson I learned on what it is to be a true hostess.

When I was young and would have a dinner party, in my mind nothing but perfection could be accepted. Everything had to be done to “magazine photo” perfection. I stressed myself and my family out by trying to reach this unattainable goal. I realized I made the act of entertaining about ME! I made it about how I looked to my guests, and how I came across to them!

This is embarrassing, but I will tell you a true story. When I was much younger, I was preparing for a dinner party, and running around like a crazy woman. When I went to vacuum, my vacuum would not turn on! So, I did what any insane, self-absorbed person would do: I vacuumed with it broken! It made the vacuum marks on the carpet, and it gave the “impression” of perfection! I know, I know! I said it was embarrassing!

Entertaining is about serving others. A party will always have some sort of hiccup. But, when you adopt the attitude of “it isn’t about me,” you relax. And, your guests relax and everyone has a much better time!

Proper Planning

NOW, having said that, the flip side is doing a good job at planning for a party. Another important lesson I learned was to keep it simple! Don’t go out of your comfort zone on your menu. A simple well-prepared meal is better than a gourmet flop!

Do your grocery shopping and cleaning the day before. Set your dinner table the night before, or in the morning. Don’t leave all the work for the day of your party. You will only be frazzled and exhausted, and you won’t be able to enjoy your company!

Table Setting Diagram

There are many different table decorating ideas that are fun and easy. But, I want to show you a correct example of setting an informal dinner table.

Table setting diagram

1. This is your bread plate. You can place a bread knife on the plate, or leave a bread knife on your butter dish. You can also place a salad plate here, or add both a bread plate and salad plate next to each other. I find it gets too crowded on the table, so I like to choose one or the other.

2. Dessert Spoon

3. Beverage Glass

4. Coffee Cup

5. Napkin – you can also place the napkin under the forks, or try your hand at some fun napkin folding ideas.

6. Salad Fork

7. Dinner Fork

8. Dinner Plate

9. Knife – always have the sharp side facing toward the plate.

10. Spoon

Dishes and Silverware

Beautiful silverware

Your dishes don’t have to be a perfect match! I think it is fun to mix and match! I love going to an outlet pottery store and purchase plain white dishes. This way you can mix and match plain white dishes with dishes with patterns.

Place Cards

Place card

One of my favorite elegant party ideas is to make some place cards for my table. They add a touch of elegance, and come in very handy when guests are ready to be seated.

I make my place cards using card stock. I print the names out from the computer, and then cut them and fold them. I like to add some detail, so I usually stamp something and color it with watercolor pencils.

Unique place card idea

There are a lot of fun ideas for place cards. I found these grapevine pumpkins at the craft store and used them for place cards.

Table Centerpiece Ideas

Flower centerpiece

For table centerpiece ideas, again keep it simple. Opt for a simple flower arrangement and candles. If you think elegant party ideas have to be over the top and expensive that just isn’t so!

If you are wanting a homemade centerpiece, or your are purchasing a store bought centerpiece, make sure the flowers are low enough to not obstruct the view of guests. You can make your own stunning centerpieces! Always choose non-scented candles. You don’t want a scented candle to interfere with the aroma of your food.

Dinner Party Music

This is a MUST when I have someone over for dinner. I do not play the music loud, just soft enough to float in the background. Great dinner party music soothes guests, and promotes a relaxed environment for conversation.

Graduation Party Decorating Ideas

Graduation Centerpiece Idea

Throwing a graduation party, and need some easy decorating ideas? Come check out these creative graduation decorating ideas.

More Entertaining Ideas

Here are 5 fabulous elegant party ideas from HGTV! I love these!

Good luck with your party, and remember–entertaining guests isn’t about perfection, it is about the art of giving. You don’t have to spend a ton of money to come up with elegant party ideas.

I would like to say a thank you to my mother who taught me as a little girl, how to entertain, cook, but most of all bring joy to others over a home cooked meal.

Decorating a Cake With Flowers

Elegant Party Ideas